Relationships are beautiful, right? Well, have you ever asked how? Just as beautiful buildings aren’t just born, they are built. Similarly, great and beautiful relationships aren’t born, they are built. Ups and downs are a part of life, so it is better to remain logical and level headed rather than putting all the intellect aside and going crazy.
And to keep you intact with your intellect, here are the following points you need to remember while in a distant relationship.
How to Deal With Long Distance Relationship?
Stay in Touch when you Can’t Touch Each Other
We all know it, consistency is the key. Just take a little example of publishing a blog post. It does not require to be of 1000 words every time, you just need to post it consistently to let your readers know that you are there, you are updated and you actually care. Same goes for the Long-distance relationship when you want to have it worked, you must establish an emotional contact more often which does not have to be extensive enough. Why? Because there are contra factors in the presence of your consistency’s absence. The likelihood of your awareness gets decreased at a high rate, which means every time you start talking about something, you have to build the momentum all the way from bottom and to the Top.
Remember to Avoid Over Touching, it can cause Skin Damage
Everything at its extreme becomes illogical and invalid, this is what will happen when you try to stay in contact for 10 hours a day. It is not a good part, it will only cause you to have a distance which you are trying to cope up in the first place. Just be patient and know, less is more. Stay safe and stay happy, do not try it.
Feeling a little communication gap?
Just use a little technique and figure out what went wrong? Was it the result of short temperament? maybe this gap could be bridged by a little communication technique by using the tone and method which is preferred by the other half, make it and stay positive minded!
What Do We Need to Talk About?
Be on a little note sometimes as well. When you are communicating with each other you must remember that it does not have to be only about the big picture and the finance, the job and the age factor, the family and the neighbors, the worst part of the day and alike. Just simply Decide to relax sometimes, and enjoy as you crack jokes about the street experiences and the past, about funny clowns and alike. Just have some fun.
How and What?
About what, it is as simple as it could be. Simply crack jokes and a little imitation, you know the fun stuff well. But, you can also script it and pre plan it. Just have a thought process going on in your mind and try to rehearse as well, your final performance on the phone or any mobile device. Just have it done right there and make sure that it is funny, how can you make it more attractive. And how can you do it? Visit websites and start reading jokes, try making one of your own, you can also use the past occurrences that made you laugh and delight your other half with the pre-loaded love that you just prepared for them, show them more often than you say to them, that you care because you actually do.
You need to have it arranged, a meeting. Meeting each other in person is essential for a relationship, and try to meet as much as possible. For this, you can have your calendar marks and whatever you have to record and carve out plans for the other meeting as well, just remember that you do not need to be too much exhaustive and sweating already about it.
Whenever you meet, decide a little activity which both will perform upon the meeting, truly by heart. This will indirectly indicate that the relationship is alive and breathing, not dead and suffocating.
Know, that it is better to Know Each other
Don’t get started with the wet palms. Just relax and take a little time to observe what are the likings of the other half and preferences, and try to have a little study on it from the valid sources. This will make you know your partner fully.
Honesty is the Key to Nearness
If you just had an experience where you followed your temptation, and you followed the anti what your relationship stood for. Then in the mentioned case, just do not forget to have the honesty factor in between. Discuss what just happened with your partner and seek help, try to have a healthy discussion and try to have all the scattered work and arguments in an assembled manner. It is actually healthy, no matter how extreme you would think right now, even if you had a little laugh at the moment where “Try to have a healthy discussion” was mentioned. But it is better to be committed to each other morally, than just in an imagination which can take you anywhere and everywhere, especially beyond the limitations of the law as well.